Almost everyone who has received a massage will attest to feeling much better after the session. There are exceptions, of course, where the masseuse does not possess the necessary skills or fails to apply them in the correct manner. However, such situations are very rare. When you treat yourself to a massage, you can be virtually certain that both your body and your mind…
Music is such a powerful companion to the senses that it can evoke any and every emotion in the human mind. The sound waves and reverberations created by music have a mysterious but powerful ability to infuse the soul and speak to the spirit. That is why music works so well with tantra, the 5000-year old ancient Hindu practice that seeks to make the Universe bow to the…
If life was a fairy tale, we would get happy endings all the time. Unfortunately, real life is very different. A ‘happy ending’ in the world of massage is even more so. So what does this term mean and how do you go about asking for the right way? What is a «Happy Ending»? The happiest ending for an erotic massage client is an orgasm and that is exactly what is meant by the…
Our eyes enjoy erotic images. Smells and sounds arouse us. Even our sense of taste can heighten our excitement. Still, it is the sense of touch that we hunger for most in intimate moments. The immense power of physical contact as a source of ecstatic pleasure is something that we still do not completely understand. Touch has the power to create pleasurable sensations which lie at the root of erotic massage. But…
In a world that seems obsessed with proving that women can do anything a man can do, we are now inundated with questions from women about “squirting”. The most “scientific” term for this phenomenon is perhaps “female ejaculation.” The scourge of real relationships, porn movies, seems to be pushing towards a narrative that ejaculating is…
Lips on lips – now there’s a magical sensation! For many women, oral sex can be the most exciting and pleasurable part of a sexual episode. The man who has this trump card up his sleeve will be setting himself up for some equally enjoyable reciprocal service. Here are three pointers that work just as…
We have all heard of urban legends of sex toys in a parcel post or in luggage that humiliates the owner. Although it is generally not advisable to let people know that you are using sex toys, their stigmatization has gradually dissipated over the past decade. Should you use them? The use of sex toys…
There is no doubt that the education system means well when it determines the sex education syllabus. However, SexEd classes don’t address some of the most common questions young people have about sex. Here, we clear up three unacceptably widespread misconceptions. You cannot get pregnant when you have sex for the first time Lie! Any…
For a term that explains exactly what it is, a massage exchange confuses an extraordinary number of people. “So… you just… exchange massages?” is one of the most common responses. The answer to that question, of course, is “yes!” Overcoming the scepticism Part of the reason that massage exchanges meet with such incredulous reactions in…
Massage is a great way to bond with someone, even when it is not overtly erotic. The prolonged physical contact, the touching and brushing of intimate parts of the body, and the pleasure from the release of tension from the muscles combine to make massage inherently potent with sensuality. A sensual massage is not restricted…
