It is just one of those strange things about society that lesbians are generally very easily accepted by both heterosexual men and heterosexual women but the gay male is still on the fringes. Hollywood and TV are a great representation of this fact.
Why is it so hard to get a massage for a gay male?
For a gay male, that general lack of acceptance can make things unnecessarily awkward and inconvenient. Even a simple thing like a massage becomes an occasion ripe for misunderstanding and embarrassment. Whereas an openly-gay women receiving a massage from a masseuse is hardly noticed, many masseurs will balk at the idea of giving the same to a gay male.
The inherently sensual nature of a regular massage can cause both the massage therapist and the massage recipient to feel aroused. The physical manifestation of this arousal as an erection can become impossible to ignore and lead to an unnecessarily humiliating memory.
Where should you look for a gay male massage?
The option left to the gay male is to find an establishment that caters specifically to those of his sexual inclination. In this respect, the internet is invaluable. Many gay massage businesses advertise their services to cater to the gay male demographic that is searching for a release.
Some popular places gay males find massage establishments for their needs:
- Online newspaper classifieds.
- Massage Parlors.
Many times, gay massage parlours are especially discreet and men are surprised to discover that they exist within their communities. With a gay massage parlour, all the potentially embarrassing situations that make the prospect of getting a massage elsewhere disappear. You are free to be yourself and any obvious signs of arousal and excitement will probably not only be the norm, but encouraged.
Equality and acceptance for the gay man might not be as easy as it is for the gay woman but at least now you can at least get a massage how and when you like.