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Starting a career in erotic dance or erotic massage is a huge step and it can be a very scary one. There are 3 main reasons for this:
- Anything new and unknown is always scary.
- A new career is a very intimidating transition.
- Getting used to being nude or partially nude in front of strangers is difficult.
Despite these three huge hurdles, many women (and men, too) have made the successful switch to erotic dancing. If you are considering following in their footsteps, here is a simple and easy to follow guide to break down the barriers and begin a new life in the nude erotic dance industry.
Find a catchy name
Your name is like your perpetual signature and it should be part of the persona you create when you perform as an erotic dancer nude. Don't underestimate its importance - even Hollywood stars don't always use their real name. For example, Joaquin Phoenix is actually Joaquin Rafael Bottom (which is probably a better name for a stripper). The reason an erotic nude dance stage name is so important is the fantasy around the dancer. Certain sounds and names induce a feeling of sensuality, which is perfect when you want men (and women) to start fantasizing as soon as they hear it. Remember to avoid the most common ones so you don’t get lost in the crowd. Names like Jewel, Angel, Crystal, Candy, etc. (all spelt in various ways) induce more groans than 'ooh's'.
Develop the ability to dance
Yes, surprise, surprise, you actually have to be able to dance sensuously if you want to be an exotic dancer or do outcall erotic massage. This rule may sound ridiculous but, trust me, many beautiful women who enter the industry assume just shaking their booty up and down and side to side will get them through. It does not. Remember also that sexy erotic dance is different from dancing at the club. Here, all the focus is on you alone and you need to be able to capture the attention of the audience as you gyrate. Small missteps that make no difference when you are with friends will look completely awkward when you are the only one dancing on a huge stage. Couple that with the stiletto heels, G-string and not much else and it becomes a Herculean task. One of the best tools you have is the ability to choose your own erotic dance songs. Practice erotic dances with something that you already love and develop a routine around it.
Choose the right outfit
The outfit is part of the stripper’s persona just like her name. Of course, the outfit may evolve and change for different routines but it has to be in sync with the stripper's character, her moves and her personality. Just like in normal life, what you wear when you pole dance erotically determines how people perceive you. In the midst of many erotic dancers nude, each one looking to capture the most attention, standing out can be a challenge. However, it is one that can pay off very well if it works. Fortunately, erotic naked dancer outfits do not have to be expensive or elaborate to work. The key is to play to the audience. Watch what works with other strippers before deciding on your own. Your body, your weight and skin tone play a huge part in the final decision. Don't forget that the lights at a club are very different from the bright lights in a dressing room or your bedroom. Choose colors that will work in the environment where you will be performing.
Confidence!
Last here but certainly not the least important weapon in a stripper’s arsenal is her confidence. Confidence, or lack of it, is obvious in the way you move, your walk, your facial expressions and all your interactions with your clients. Confidence in an erotic dance sexy girl is good because it allows your audience to ease themselves effortlessly into the fantasy world that you are building. It allows you to transition from your usual self into the character that you play on stage to make that fantasy real. Some girls dancing erotic, especially early in their careers, find developing confidence hard because of a few rejections. More experienced dancers come to understand that this has nothing to do with your beauty or your skills or your physical attributes – it is simply a matter of the clients’ individual tastes. We constantly see clients choose a stripper who would normally be considered far less attractive. It is just that client’s fantasy and nothing else. Let the ‘no’s fade into the past and know that there are thousands of ‘yes’ answers just around the corner.
The exotic dancer's kit
Multiple outfits
Dancing is a workout and you are bound to get sweaty. The stage on which you gyrate is less than sparkling clean. Little snags and tears that can ruin the full effect of an otherwise excellent outfit. The way around this is to take at least two outfits with you wherever you go to work, even to an erotic dance party. If you work at different clubs on the same night, it can be useful to carry different outfits so you don't end up wearing the thing or in the same color as too many others.
Shoes
A good pair of sexy dancing erotic shoes are very different from the usual stiletto heels that you wear to go clubbing. A brand known as Pleasers creates them specifically for the girl dancing erotic routines that professional exotic dancers put their footwear through. They are a good investment.
Wet wipes
You might go through an hour-long routine but every client expects you to be fresh as a daisy for them. A wet wipe is the perfect way to freshen up before your next turn on the stage without having a full shower. Perfume is also highly recommended.
Lock
Most clubs have changing rooms that contain lockers. Not everyone using the change rooms is as honest as you may be. Invest in a good non-digital lock that will be hard to pick or break. Sweettouch is a team of professionals who know how to satisfy a man. For more information, see https://sweettouch.fr/info/erotic-massage
