This tantric technique is an intimate massage that awakens all the sensitive points of a woman and deepens the intimate relationship of partners. Get acquainted with our instructions on how to give the best yoni massage.
If a man is eager to give pleasure to his woman in bed and does this, then it is easier for her to open up for a new experience. This improves contact and enhances emotional communication. And this means that a woman will have no reason not to want sex. Tantric yoni massage is just about complete relaxation, trust, and satisfaction. This technique is fully aimed at female pleasure. Nothing is required of a woman. She's relaxed and enjoying herself.
Preparation for yoni massage
What should be taken care of before you try to apply this technique? At the very beginning, create a special atmosphere and space. Give such a gift to your woman! The place and atmosphere should be such that the lady will immediately understand something special awaits. This must be a space for two and there is no room for distractions. Only the ability to share something special. So, how do you do that?
If you are not warm enough, you will not be able to relax. Therefore, the creation of a cozy and optimal temperature is an important condition of this tantric intimate practice.
Bright light sets us up for the activity. Therefore, soft light is more suitable for sensitivity, and closeness. Nevertheless, it must be enough light to see clearly.
Music without lyrics is recommended. Turn on something relaxing. Favorite songs are not suitable, because a woman will start singing them out loud or in her head and this will distract her from the process.
Without lubrication, tantric yoni massage can not do. It's advisable to follow two rules when choosing a lubricant. It should be natural and stay on the skin for a long time. Female intimate tissues are very sensitive, so it is important to choose a high-quality purified product. Coconut oil is a good choice.
Everything you need is to make your woman feel comfortable. Pillows, fruit, wine... Anything you will fill a special space for two, which will help to tune in to exchange and pleasure.
The basic principle of pleasure is to go beyond and abandon the goal. When orgasm, not pleasure, becomes the main problem of intimacy, we miss many opportunities to receive this very pleasure.
Yoni massage isn't exactly about orgasm. And it doesn't always end in an orgasm. It's about pleasure and relaxation. It's important to talk about how your partner feels. But it will be better to tell about this after a massage. Because if you talk and think during the procedure, it distracts from the process. Select time not only for the massage itself but also for a frank conversation after. If you feel uncomfortable, you will not be able to fully relax. A person who gives a relaxing intimate massage simply cannot feel uncomfortable. The optimal position is between the legs of the partner. But you can choose the most comfortable position yourself.
Stages of yoni massage
- Stage 1 - show patience. The woman needs time to achieve pleasure. She must completely go through each stage and she cannot be rushed. Let her show her emotions and enjoy the sensations without haste.
- Stage 2 - connect to her. Massage always begins with the fact that you put one hand on the heart center of the partner, and the second on the pubis. Hands should be relaxed, soft. Breathe deeply. Tune in to each other and do not rush.
- Stage 3 - apply oil and make circular movements. Gently apply a lubricant on the intimate zone - pubis, perineum. Put one hand on the vagina, and use your fingers to make circular movements.
- Stage 4 - diverse movements. Using your thumb or index finger, move up and down the vagina. You can gently apply pressure. After this, everything is the same, only with circular finger movements. Then squeeze both lips together easily, clasping them between your fingers. In this position, move up to the pubis and down to the anus. Monitor the partner's reaction so as not to put excess pressure. Now slide your finger inside the outer lips where they connect to the inner ones. Massage of these areas is very important because most women have clitoris legs here. You may be surprised, but the clitoris has legs. Remember, touches must be soft and slow to allow the excitation fire to build up.
- Stage 5 - do not forget about the perineum. With one finger draw a line down from the pubic bone between the lips through the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina to the perineum (the place between the yoni and the anus). There are many nerve endings there and in some women, this place is sensitive so much that they can reach orgasm. Keep doing this for about 2 minutes. But do not accelerate or increase pressure. This is a very important condition of this stage. Make sure you are completely relaxed. Enjoy the way you touch your beloved, her beauty, her pleasure.
- Stage 6 - urethra attention. Between the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina, there is the urethra. Via stimulating it, it is also possible to stimulate the G-point. If when pressing you can feel how you touch the bone, you are in the right place. Put the finger pad here and, remaining in place, make light pressing circular movements.
- Stage 7 - the clitoris. Put two fingers on both sides of the clitoris on his hood (right and left). Make a few slow movements up and down. Now gently bring your fingers together, as if pressing the clitoris under the hood. Now with the pad of one finger touch directly the clitoris and do circular and up-down, right-to-left movements.
- Stage 8 - enter the yoni. Slowly make a circle with your finger around the entrance, ask your beloved permission to enter, and slowly get inside. Very often, women feel little pleasure during sex, because men are in a hurry. Her body language will show you what she is experiencing and how is she feeling right now.
Using all these techniques, you can make your girl experience the brightest orgasm ever! Remember the closer a partner is to pleasure, the more active stimulation is needed. But be careful and listen to your beloved, let her show exactly what speed she needs. Don't wait for quick results. It may take time.