There are times when massage makes only 20% of what you need. The last 80% are some support, some intimacy and a bit of understanding. You usually need it at night when the hard working day is over and you start facing your worries. Forget your troubles with a person who will surely understand you. As night is a mysterious and intimate time, you can let yourself be real. Show her your scars; let her treat you tenderly and softly. Merge into physical and emotional enjoyment. Talk and drink some wine. Savor truly the massage: you have nowhere to hurry.